SIBLINGS
ACCUSTOMED, CEREMONIOUS
MY - NESS
"My parents, my husband, my brother, my sister . . .
I delight in being here on earth
For one more moment, with them, here on earth,
To celebrate our tiny, tiny my-ness."
~ Czeslaw Milosz (1911 - 2004) ~
Polish poet, translator, Nobel Prize Winner
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The family, that dear octopus
from whose tentacles we never quite escape,
nor in our innermost hearts, ever quite wish to.
~ Dodie Smith (1896 – 1990) ~
From her play Dear Octopus

Eldest Brother
David Joel Carriker
Backyard Decor
Marion's Magnifying Locket
Marion's Blue Dishes
Pie Safe
Eye Contact
It's Magic
Thanks Dave
Magic Everyday
Such a Boer!
Eldest Sister
Peggy Linn Carriker Rosenbluth
Happy Birthday Coyote!
Artistic Flair
Not in Kansas Anymore!
Peg's Mosaic
Russian Straw Dolls
Sharing Horizons That Are New To Us
We Had Fun, Didn't We?
The Usual Selves That I Have Known
All the Little Animals
Be a Loving Friend
Guest Blog: HiyaKiyah
Twins in the Middle
Bruce Lindsey Carriker and Kitti Beth Carriker
Just a Little Social Distance
From the Grade School Archives
Thanksgiving Turkey
Earth Day Perspective
Christmas Shomily
Pre - Election & Post - Election
"Beautiful and terrible things . . . "
AI Is Easy
The Only Day
Twin Cousins
Younger Sister
Teresa Diane Carriker Burrows
Happy Five Audacious
Blessed
Rosemary
Leap Day Nephews and Nieces
Di & Aaron in pjs / flower photo by Tom
Younger Brother
Aaron Blaine Carriker
Blue Eyed Bear
O Christmas Tree Unchanging
Cubs
The Gray Lady
Silverware Drawer
Our Tiniest Sister
Rest in Peace Baby Hope
A Snowdrop and Fair
Only Known Photograph of Entire Family of 8:
Mom, Dad & Us 6 Kids ~ March 1977
Eight People Without Issues!
Holidays & Reunions
Post Thanksgiving
Reunion 2009
Blessings
Hygge
Christmas Eve ~ So Fair a Fancy
This Old Nativity
Boy Doll & Wish Book
Straw to Gold
Halloween Costume Ideas from Days of Yore
Group Chats
Carriker Barrel
Serendipity and/or Synchronicity
Synchronicity? Oh Baloney!
Not to be Devoured
Leap Day Wizard Dreams
Our Town Redux
Andy Griffith & Touchables & Martian Melody
Just Us Girls
Pretty Enough For All Normal Purposes
G.R.I.T.S.
Tastes Like Chicken
Tomatoes & Gravy
Coyote, Goth, Ramrod
Sparkle Plenty
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MORE FAMILY STORIES TO COME
in the meantime . . .
Lots of Family Pictures: Calendar 2024
Calendar 2025: #1 ~ #2 ~ #3
Photo Ablums: Gravestones & Grandparents
There's no vocabulary for love within a family,
love that's lived in but not looked at,
love within the light of which all else is seen,
the love within which all other love finds speech.
This love is silent." ~ T. S. Eliot
ENTIRE SERIES:
Family History #1
Family History #2
Family History #3
Family History #4
Family History #5
Family History #6
Family History #7
Family History #8
Next Fortnightly Post: Family History #9
Monday, September 14, 2026
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THE QUOTIDIAN KIT
my shorter, almost daily blogs
www.dailykitticarriker.blogspot.com
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my running list of recent reading
www.kittislist.blogsppot.com
THE OLDEST HOMES & ELDERS
ACCUSTOMED, CEREMONIOUS
ABOVE
~ Top Left ~
The Lindsey Homestead ~ built in 1832
in Antrim, Ohio
(Guernsey County, Madison Township)
Photo taken by Homer Reed
(a distant cousin - in - law)
sometime before 1920
Known: house was occupied on July 13, 1971,
when it sustained porch damage during a tornado.
Unknown: the specific street address
and whether or not it is still standing.
Built by
Samuel B. Lindsey (1789 - 1883)
Martha B. Work Lindsey (1794 - 1877)
Married September 6, 1814
(my Great x3 Grandparents,
pictured directly below house)
~ Top Right ~
The Haddix Homestead ~ on the Old Haddix Road
in Osborn, Ohio (Greene County)
Unknown: if it survived the flooding of 1913
and whether or not it is still standing.
Built by
John P. Haddix (1791 - 1888)
~ see him, by the fence ~
Sarah Elizabeth Cox (1798–1860)
~ no photo available ~
Married March 29, 1817
(my Great x3 Grandparents)
~ Lower Right ~
portrait of their daughter
Sarah Elizabeth Haddix (1826 - 1861)
(My Great-great Grandmother,
pictured directly below house)
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BELOW
Row 1:
James Sankey Lindsey (1846 - 1921)
Grandson of Samuel & Martha Lindsey
(pictured above)
James is the only son of their eldest son Robert;
sadly, no photo of Robert available,
nor did Robert inherit the Lindsey Homestead,
which went instead to their second son, John.
Unknown: the story behind that outcome.
My maternal grandfather
Paul Jones Lindsey (1891 - 1983)
Son of James & Sarah
Sarah Elisabeth Hartman (1856 - 1937)
Row 2:
Paul with his mother Sarah, after World War 1
Paul & Rovilla, late 1920s
Map of the Homestead Farms
in Madrid, Perkins County, Nebraska,
where James & Sarah had a property
(marked by " * stead X"}
as did Sarah's father, Charles Gordon Hartman
(marked by "Grand Pa X")
(sketched out by Wayne Wallace Lindsey,
older brother of Paul)
See arrow -> "School Mother Taught"
where Sarah taught school,
very near the Lindsey Homestead.
They farmed on the homesteads
through the hard times of 1887 - 1895,
then returned via Oklahoma,
in a covered wagon, where Paul was born,
delivered by his Grandfather Charles,
and settled outside of Caney, Kansas.
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BELOW
1.
17 Oak Street
Emporia, Kansas
built shortly after 1880
standing until sometime after 1915
demolished to make way for the railroad
Rovilla standing near center,
with her Grandmother Elizabeth near left edge
The home of my Great-great Grandparents
2.
Henry Wise Miller
(May 27, 1834 - October 29, 1915)
and Elizabeth Birkinbine Miller
(February 28, 1838 - March 23, 1925)
photo - approx 1900
3.
Sitting in front of their house
a few years later
4.
Their daughter
Anna Mary Miller
(December 29, 1862 - January 3, 1923)
Shown here on her wedding day
(March 9, 1886)
to
William Michael Heideman
(June 3, 1855 - December 18, 1931)
4a.
Anna Mary & William Heideman's house
400 North 19th Street, Independence, Kansas
(no longer standing)
Anna Mary standing in front, to the left,
with grand-daughter #2 Mildred Della (b 1917)
near the middle is her daughter-in-law
Ethel (Harry's wife)
and grand-daughter #1 Ila Maxine (b 1913)
based on the girls' heights, maybe 1920
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BELOW
1.
Paul during World War 1
Rovilla as a teenager
2.
My maternal grandparents,
Paul & Rovilla, 1960s
3.
Twins, Bruce & Kitti Beth (me) in 1960
Our grandmother & our mother:
Rovilla & Mary Beth
4.
Elizabeth ~ Anna Mary ~ Rovilla ~ 1919
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MORE FAMILY STORIES TO COME
in the meantime . . .
Lots of Family Pictures: Calendar 2024
Calendar 2025: #1 ~ #2 ~ #3
Photo Ablums: Gravestones & Grandparents
There's no vocabulary for love within a family,
love that's lived in but not looked at,
love within the light of which all else is seen,
the love within which all other love finds speech.
This love is silent." ~ T. S. Eliot
ENTIRE SERIES:
Family History #1
Family History #2
Family History #3
Family History #4
Family History #5
Family History #6
Family History #7
Family History #8
Next Fortnightly Post: Family History #8
Friday, August 28th
Between now and then, read
THE QUOTIDIAN KIT
my shorter, almost daily blogs
www.dailykitticarriker.blogspot.com
Looking for a good book? Try
KITTI'S LIST
my running list of recent reading
www.kittislist.blogsppot.com