"One ought, every day at least, to hear a little song, read a good poem, see a fine picture
and, if possible, speak a few reasonable words." ~Goethe

~ also, if possible, to dwell in "a house where all's accustomed, ceremonious." ~Yeats

Thursday, October 29, 2020

The Birkinbine Millers of Oak Street

MY GREAT - GREAT GRANDPARENTS
ACCUSTOMED, CEREMONIOUS
Henry Wise Miller
(May 27, 1834 ~ October 29, 1915)
&
Elizabeth Birkinbine Miller
(February 28, 1938 ~ March 28, 1925)
~ 17 Oak Street ~ Emporia, Kansas ~
I wish I could say for sure who is standing
in front of the house, but the photo is not
labelled, and I cannot be certain.
Perhaps it is Elizabeth to the left, and her daughter
Anna Mary (my great - grandmother) to the right.

 ~ Henry Miller's tailor shop in Emporia, Kansas ~
He shared the space with his son - in - law,
Nathaniel Reider, who ran a shoe shop
at the corner of 4th Avenue & Commercial Street.
Public notice for visible display,
indicating that the owner -- Henry Wise Miller --
had purchased a legal license from the U.S. government
to manufacture and sell cigars!

Not easy to read, but here’s what it says:

(41)

U. S. INTERNAL REVENUE

COLLECTOR'S CERTIFICATE TO MANUFACTURER OF TOBACCO OR CIGARS

(To be issued upon the approval of the Manufacturer's Bond and posted in a conspicuous place in the Manufactory. Failure to obtain the Certificate or to keep it posted renders the Manufacturer liable to a fine of not less than one hundred dollars. Sections 63 and 82, Act of July 20, 1868.)
I hereby certify That "Henry W. Miller"
Manufacturer of "Cigars" at "Kleinfeltersville,
Lebanon County [Pennsylvania]" (Being Manufactory No. 188) has given bond
to the United States in the sum of "One thousand"
dollars, which includes . . .

The sum of one hundred dollars each for "Five" persons
employed in making cigars ____________$ "500"

In witness whereof, I have here unto affixed my hand and seal
at Pottsville [Pennsylvania], this 7th day of May 1873
J. G. Frick, Collector
10th District of PA [Pennsylvania]
W. E. Davis
[plus some additional official initials -- not clear]

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I have known all my life about the Birkinbine Millers moving to Emporia in 1880 and the tailor shop, although the above storefront photograph was new to me. But never had I heard or seen any reference to the tobacco business until I came across this discolored IRS document, in my 2020 sorting project of family ephemera.

Looking over these various artifacts from Great - Great - Grandfather Miller's life, I can't help thinking of this haunting passage from William Soutar (1898 - 1943) and wondering if it goes both ways -- not only why do we wish to be remembered, but why do we wish to remember these dear old folks who have never looked, can never look, upon our face?

Is it their love or approval that we seek? Or perhaps the opportunitity to say, "Look at us; we are your great - great - grands! It was all worth it! We're going to the future and taking you with us!" Whatever our motiviation, we sense their unseen presence, whenever we look at the old photos, visit the cemetery, or honor the ancestors, on Memorial Day or Dia de los Muertos:
"Why do we wish to be remembered, even when none remain who looked upon our face? Surely, though it must retain an element of self- consideration, it is a last acknowledgment that we need to be loved; and, having gone from all touch, we trust that memory may, as it were, keep our unseen presence within the borders of day."
William Soutar (1898 - 1943)
Scottish poet & diarist

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Remembering Henry Wise Miller
on the 105th anniversary of his death
.
Henry's daughter Anna Mary wrote a letter at the time of his death, sent from the family home on Oak Street (pictured above) to her daughter Rovilla (my grandmother) in another small Kansas town, a hundred miles away. Anna includes news of the family both local and extended, describes what further tasks she hopes to complete for her newly widowed mother, and gives details of the funeral, which was conducted in German. Henry died on October 29th, and the funeral was the 31st. All Hallow's Eve fell on a Sunday that year. The letter begins:
Emporia 10 / 31 - 1915

Dear Papa [her husband William Michael Heidemann] & Rovilla,

This is Sunday evening: Jake and Alice [two of her siblings] are with us this evening. Well we have buried our Grandpa. It was a very pretty day. We had short services at the house at 2 o'clock, a hymn & read a chapter of the Bible & then we took him to the church where we had first a song by the choir ["Wo findet die Seele, die Heimat die Ruh" / "O where is the home of the soul to be found?"], then Rev. John Naninnga read I Corinthians 2: 1 - 10, then a hymn by the choir ["Hier auf Erden bin ich ein Pilger" / "I'm a Pilgrim, and I'm a stranger" ], then Rev. Josef Brandt preached from Job 19: 25 - 27. He surely preached a good sermon in German, after which Rev. Steinmetz spoke a few words from Chapter 1 of Job, than another hymn ("Abide With Me").

He also spoke so good; I wish that all English people could have understood it. The church was full. It seems so lonesome this evening. Grandpa's coffin was covered with the prettiest flowers, white and purple & tied with pretty purple chiffon ribbons. Nathaniel [Henry's son - in - law mentioned above; married to Alice] took a picture of the casket & flowers, so you can see later on how it looked. I was sure looking for Harry but he sent a telegram that he could not come. . . . I have seen many of the old acquaintances since Father has been sick. I am surely anxious to come home. But first we have to do all the washing. Then I intend to clean up all the house & get the boys more comfortable [not sure who she means, as there were no youngsters or young men remaining at home]. We were upside down more or less all the time. It is a wonder Fred did not get homesick; maybe he did but he would not let on.

This is Monday: Received your letter, sure glad to hear from all. Alice is trimming Grandma's bonnet over this morning. They intened to go home this evening at five. This afternoon Alice Reider & I are going out to the cemetery to fix Uncle Will's grave [Anna's older brother / Henry & Elizabeth's eldest son, who had died of cancer in 1893, at age 28] & to put flowers on. Then tomorrow, I will commence to do the washing. I cannot set a day yet to come home, unless Mother would rather do part of the work herself. The house is very dirty, needs carpets taken up.... I got one night's rest, but sleep is gone away from us, but we will come to it again. Well I must close and hope your are both well, that is my prayer.
from Mamma

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Anna Mary Miller Heidemann
December 29, 1862 ~ January 3, 1923

Some of Anna's ornate calling cards
from before her marriage:

Wish I could have found a card for
William Birkinbine Miller


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Wednesday, October 14, 2020

You Will Be the Light

MOONLIGHT
ACCUSTOMED, CEREMONIOUS


This tender melody is my latest favorite --
a song to truly break your heart.
We keep losing loved ones this year --
and not even to coronavirus.
Every single time it happens,
these haunting lyrics come to mind:

You Will Be the Light

You'll never be the sun turning in the sky
And you won't be the moon above us on a moonlit night
And you won't be the stars in heaven
Although they burn so bright
But even on the deepest ocean
You will be the light

You may not always shine
As you go barefoot over stone
You might be so long together
Or you might walk alone
And you won't find that love comes easy
But that love is always right
So even when the dark clouds gather
You will be the light

And if you lose the part inside
When loves turns round on you
Leaving the past behind
Is knowing you'll do like you always do
Holding you blind, keeping you true

You'll never be the sun turning in the sky
And you won't be the moon above us on a moonlit night
And you won't be the stars in heaven
Although they burn so bright
But even on the deepest ocean
You will be the light


Songwriter: Donagh Long
Performed by: Dolly, Emmylou, Linda
Also by Dolores Keane

The Full Corn Moon,
pinning all our hopes on September
“We are here because we are born with the capacity
to find hidden light in all events and all people,
to lift it up and make it visible once again and
thereby to restore the innate wholeness of the world."
  

from
Becoming Wise: An Inquiry into
the Mystery and Art of Living
 
(p 25)
 by Krista Tippett 

Looking past the bothersome, worrisome, sad aspects of 2020, September was still magical; October is still mystical -- and this year, even more so! Most years it's easy: the Harvest Moon is in September, the Hunter's Moon in October. However, 2020, is one of those special years when October plays host to both big enchanting fall moons, due to the September moon being full so early in the month (the 2nd), nearly three weeks before the autumnal equinox (the 22nd).

By definition any year's Harvest Moon is the one that falls closest to the autumnal equinox (aka Mabon). This year, that honor goes to the full moon of October 1st, as does the honor of the Full Hunter's Moon on October 31st. A Blue Moon in the sky on Halloween / Saturday night -- perfect cosmic alignment for a perfectly spellbinding holiday. If only it weren't 2020, alas . . .

Harvest Moonrise,
a hopeful October
and tiny green Halloween ghost
flying around our neighbors’ window!
" . . . suddenly death seems easier, more inevitable than life.
 . . . [but] I try to appreciate the joy of the moment
without the sorrow
."


from Shabanu: Daughter of the Wind (pp 16, 231)
by Suzanne Fisher Staples

July 2019 & July 2020
“The world will never starve for want of wonders;
but only for want of wonder.”
 

from 
Tremendous Trifles (p 3)
by G.K. Chesterton 
More Light!

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